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Sunday, February 9, 2014

She's Come Undone

We had another first. While some spanking has been incorporated during sex, it has always consisted more of swatting during rather than a thorough spanking. Well, I found myself wanting more and so I taunted my Dom! I told him he was all talk. Oh yes - those words really came out of my mouth! In his words I threw a "hissy fit" because sex for his part was over and done with.

"What did you say? I'm all talk? That's it!"

So then it came. WHACK WHACK WHACK A downpour of his hands on my derrier. Swat after swat after swat on my bare bum. Over and over again his hands rained down smacking and leaving a burning sensation everywhere they went. I couldn't tell how many smacks it was or how many minutes long. All I know is that it was intimate and painful and pleasurable all at once.

And then he turned me over, swatted my inner thighs,and then his fingers were everywhere and they were my undoing. It was the neverending orgasm. It went on and on and on and on. I admit that after nearly 12 years of marriage it was probably the best I'd ever experienced.



This is the first time I've had a thorough spanking before sex and wow, is that what happens every time? More please! This is the first time he's spanked with no implement in sight. And I loved it. There was something so intimate about the experience with it being his hand. I also inspected myself in the mirror afterwards and it's the first time that I can honestly say that my bottom was rosy pink.

You know, all of my best moments in terms of sexual experience have come since adding DD into our lives. Oh, I can't wait to see what the next 12 years brings!


12 comments:

  1. You and your H seem to be going the opposite way we did--spanking, for us, used to only ever be a precursor to sex. Now we're using it for discipline purposes as well, but it always leaves me hot and bothered, no matter what kind it is ;)

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    1. Well, I'd say we're ramping up in both areas. We don't have a very long history of the discipline kind and if I'm being honest I don't believe I've really ever received an all out discipline spanking wherein I am hating life at that exact moment and then feeling relieved and happy and secure when it's all done. I feel like there's an edge that he just hasn't gotten to yet with the discipline spankings, but I'm pretty sure he'll get there. Anyways, I'm rambling. And so now I know that the erotic spanking leaves me hot and bothered, I'm assuming a good discipline one will leave me hot and bothered more so after it's over than in the moment? I guess I'll find out...lol!

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  2. Lillie, at Lillie and Ian's Place had a post once that talked about the 'whys', it was great. Basically, she talked about the increased blood flow to the region after a spanking and extra hormones released. I liked knowing there was a scientific explanation. Something besides.....we are all freaks lol.

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    1. Ooh. I'll have to look into that post. I think I remember reading something like that once too. It had something to do with all of the various nerve endings in that area or something!

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  3. It definitely sounds like you really enjoyed yourself immensely. Now the trick will be to get him to do it again with out baiting him.
    LOL I hope the next 50 yrs are like the one you just had WEG

    Bob

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    1. Yes, I'd LOVE for him to go that route without my calling him out! And my sincerest hope is that the next 50 involve a lot of moments like this one!

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  4. Yes I love the intimacy of spanking too :) You're brave to challenge Him too lol
    ava x

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    1. Haha...my boldness might be because we are still very much beginners in this. Although, I think he loves my bravery too!

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  5. Hi Rose, it's wonderful to see you back :) I'm sorry I haven't managed to comment on your previous posts.

    Wow, sounds like a wonderful night ... and I wish you many more lol :) There is nothing like the intimacy of a hand spanking ... skin on skin.

    Hugs,
    Roz

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    1. No worries Roz - there's a zillion DD blogs it seems. It's very hard to find time to make the rounds. I don't get to every post that I want to and I know you've had other things going on right now. And yes, the intimacy of a hand spanking with skin on skin - this is the first time I've ever experienced it like this and it was mind blowing!

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  6. Sounds like a wonderful evening. :) Glad that you were so fulfilled. I don't know if I'd say every time is the same, I don't think it is, but I definitely will say that since DD, ours is better too. :)

    {{{hugs}}} EsMay

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    1. It was and that sounds encouraging. I'm sure there will be times that aren't mind blowing and just more about calm connection, but it's good to know that this sort of thing has been added to our repertoire of ways to connect! :D

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